Live Your Best Life Now

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Wow! What a week so far. Texas has now adopted Michigan’s weather and Spring seems about a million years away. This week temperatures dropped to plunging degrees. I meaning lowest than they have been in decades. Being that I live in College Station, TX where a normal “Winter” is about three weeks and maybe includes an icy road here or there… this is our second snowfall to date this year. Apparently the week isn’t over and Winter isn’t either. With the power constantly going in and out, home internet being completely down and then a leak happening - my daughter and I decided to swipe on a little lipstick and spend the afternoon playing dress up. As the global pandemic continues to be a stressor, crazy weather patterns and so much uncertainty I realize now more than ever how important it is to make the most out of every single moment.

Three Heel Clicks - Live Your Best Life Now

After having several conversations this past week with various friends I realized there is a common theme in our speech these days - when Covid is over, when the weather gets better, when it’s back to normal… I can’t tell you how many times I’ve said this myself. The truth of the matter is that we don’t know when or if the world is going to go back to normal. In fact, we may need to accept the fact that it may never go back to normal. The world may forever be impacted by these changes and we have to be willing to pivot to the new life. Mental health issues are on the rise and I believe the longer we allow this impact to affect us, the harder its going to get. I believe we can live our best life now, not tomorrow, not next week, not next year - the power is in NOW.

Three Heel Clicks - Live Your Best Life Now

I challenge you this week to do something that brings you joy. Plan a family vacation that’s socially distant. Bake something from scratch. Grab yourself the best skincare products you can get your hands on and then refresh your skincare regimen. Take long bubble baths and read books on actual paper instead of your phone. Make a bucket list for this year and start crushing each one off one by one. Collect memories so that no matter what life brings you your world is beautifully crafted. Most of all - don’t forget the next time you feel down to grab a swipe of lipstick and wear the dress.

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The thing is… sometimes we have to have emotional lows to get back to the highs. It’s a contrast. When we have to let go of something really big in life oftentimes we are left with an emptiness. That emptiness takes time to refill. So what can you do?

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We have to have lower feelings to understand how positive we can feel.

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Wow! I cannot believe it’s been almost two weeks since I wrote the last post on here. It’s been kind of a blur. Something really life-changing took place last week and created a positive shift in my life. I’ll be sharing more about the experience in the coming weeks, but one thing I’ve learned is to take some time to the first process. That’s exactly what I did yesterday. I took a few hours and went a few miles to clear my head and combat the stress I was feeling. Stress is stress even if it’s positive. When big things in life hit, give yourself a little breathing room. It’s okay. You don’t have to have all the answers. You’ll be able to work things out, but for now just process. I loaded up my backpack with water and snacks, grabbed my boots, and set off with my Mojo coffee in hand for an afternoon of getting lost in nature. It was so healing! Every time I do this, I come back as a better human being.

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Three Heel Clicks - Build Your Dreams Daily
Build Your Dreams Daily

Time is precious. It’s the one form of currency we cannot get back. Over the past few years, I’ve grown to be more and more intentional with how I spend my time. Taking out and saying no to activities that are energy draining. Spending time doing the things that bring me joy. Intentionally carving out special moments with people I love and care about. As I’ve done this day after day I realize most days I am living a dream I had years ago. Back in 2017, I went through a period of life that was incredibly trying. During that time I remember having a vision where I spent my time as much as possible in nature and traveling to see things I love. It was a peaceful vision. I’m happy to report that five years later much of my free time is spent doing just that. If you want your life to change, start taking small daily steps towards that life. Here are ways to build your dream life every day.

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